Saturday, December 19, 2015

The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd


The story is set in south caroline, during the time where theres still conflict between the white people and black people. Black people were mostly slaves to those white people. They were even barred from most restaurant, churches. Women's standard at that time was very low, sending them off to colleges seemed like a waste of money. They hold classes for women on how to pluck their eyebrow, how to take iff their gloves, how to shave, how to sit preperly

Okay so ive iust finished reading this book and to be honest, i wish the ending was different. I felt that lily deserved the love of a father. I wished that T.Ray had somehow love her in his own ways. Wventhough hes always mad at lily, asking her to do this and that, never showed her a simple act of love.... However, towards the end, i know that T.Ray, at one point in his life, he did love Lili's kother. But due to the society at that time, he was shaped to be man of that time. Feeling superior, seeing women as their servannts. Hes indeed tha.product of the society at that time. Then when deborah left, he was lost. Thinking that she dis not respect her as her husband. She has no right to leave hik alone and that was when he started to resent her. To make things worse, when the fight occurrd between t ray and deborah, Lili accidentally shot her own kother and inguess. That was when t ray developed hateed towards his own daughter. Maybe he treated lily that way because of this sole reason. Maybe he was mad at lily for taking is wife away. Mornbetter yet, m somehow he saw deborah inclily and h was afraid that his daughter would leave him like his wife once dis.

I dint know. I just feel sad for kucy. She had to bear the hurtful truth. As it was indeed her who accidentally shot deborah. And it was not easy to acept that and remembering the fact dor the rest of her life

Monday, December 7, 2015

The Good Muslim - Tahmima Anam


The story is set after the independence of Bangladesh. We think that the end of the war means the end of the suffering but no, life doesnt simply work just like that

In the story, I've learned that even after the war is over, people could still be traumatized over what had happened in the past. Sohail, for instance, before the war, he was once a happy go lucky guy however, he has changed so much to the extent that his own sister doesnt even recognize him anymore.

I believed that Sohail had become one of the Islam extremists. He abandoned his own son, his mother and sister. It wasnt right. Leaving your son to live his life with an unknown woman, not sending him to school to get a proper education while you are out there claiming to be Allah's follower.

Tteuth be told, i am satisfied with the ending.. It's a depiction of a real life. Sohail went far awar after the death of his son. He didn't get angry with maya. He believed it has been written by The One. Maya continued herblife as usual, got married to Joy, her bestfriend since before the war and got a child of her own named after zaid. 

The thing i like the most about the story is that there's not one character that you could totally blame or hate 100% for the things that happened after the war.

Sohail has his own reasons to be pious and leave the world behind. Henactually beocome very traumatized by the incident which he accidentally slash an old man's throat just because he spoke Urdu,  his enemy's language. Since then, sohail was never the same. He can only find peace when when he's close to Allah. Thats the only way for him to stay sane. Maya, realizing all these felt guilty because she left her brother, her mother in rage for seven longs years without trying to understand her brother's pin. And now maya, eventhough she has '"lost' his brother to the war, she was finally be able to feel content with the way things are now. She understands that the war has taken its toll on their lives and she has to continue living her life non matter what happened.

This book has made me even more sympathetic with those who have been in war or those who are still in war. Countries like palestin and syria. They dont get to live like everyone else does. They have to face the loss of lives everyday. It feels like impossible for a humanbeing to endure so much pain from young. I hope things get better for them, for us all.